Why Sexy Women’s Lingerie Can Help You Feel Feminine

I am a busty woman. That, my friends, might actually be an understatement of epic proportions. When I am wearing my normal, average bras or whatever, I feel sexy, but not always feminine. I have sports bras (I usually wear two at a time) that make me feel strong and powerful but not feminine. But, there is a gorgeous set that I have; delicate almost that makes me feel feminine, almost dainty. I love to wear it when I am feeling that hard edge come over me because it rounds out the corners and softens those lines. Sexy women’s lingerie can make you feel feminine and there is more: I don’t think it changes your stand on the issues one little bit.

People often dismiss me as ditzy, flaky or flighty. I tend to wander off on more colorful tangents during conversation and have been known to meander off the topic altogether more than a time or two. They see the cleavage and the blonde hair and assume that I am not all that bright. They are often visibly surprised when I reveal that not only am I a pretty smart cookie, I can actually carry on a conversation on any topic whatsoever. But, there are times when the world makes you feel so super militant that you look down and almost expect to be wearing a uniform of some sort. Sure, I want to get my point across, but I don’t think I have to give away all of my femininity to do so. I am perfectly fine wearing sexy women’s lingerie while I am debating what is wrong with society- after all, what is going on underneath my clothes should have nothing to do with anyone else.

I have been a single mother for several years. The local politicians suggest that I would not be in poverty if I had married the father of these kids- one in particular has also suggested that there is likely to be more than one father for these kids. I almost wish that was the case, but it is not true. After I made him leave, I was relieved, scared and a mix of a hundred other emotions all at the same time. That first night, I slept in sweat pants and a tee shirt just in case he came back and caused trouble. But, soon, I was more comfortable and that is when I chose to wear my sexy women’s lingerie so that I could feel feminine and attractive once again. I needed that to remind me that no matter what else I did, I was a woman first.