Selecting the Perfect Women’s Lingerie for You
Women come in every shape and size imaginable from the very tall to the very small and everything in between. Each of us have different shapes and different lingerie needs. The same woman will have different lingerie needs during her lifetime- maybe even different needs for a single day. It is important to know your body type, your best lingerie style and of course, the reason you are wearing it before you set on a quest for the perfect women’s lingerie for you.
Why You Need the Perfect Women’s Lingerie
Think about what lingerie does for you: it is a soft and silky protective shield between your body and the rougher materials of your outer clothing. It a way to present the best version of yourself to people by smoothing bumps, lifting and separating and generally keeping everything where it is supposed to be. It can be a confidence booster as well, a naughty little secret that only you and your special someone needs to ever know about. Think about it, the talk at the water cooler is that you are a real ice pop, frozen solid and a big stick up your…well, you know the rumors. What would those people say if they knew that underneath your fuddy duddy get up you have a lavender demi cup bra and a matching thong? That might shut them up for good, don’t you think? You need the perfect lingerie because of the way it looks and feels and because of the way it makes you feel about yourself.
The Difference Between Day Wear and Night Wear
The perfect lingerie for one occasion might be all wrong for another. That gorgeous black satin teddy and garter set you wore under your black silk dress were perfect for evening but are kind of sending all of the wrong signals worn under your white button down blouse in the harsh florescent glare of the office. Unless you want everyone to know that you own black lingerie, dark or very bright colors do not belong under white or light colored blouses. Conversely, light colors under thin black material might be equally bad. You need more subdued or understated, functional clothing for your similar minded clothing and sexier, racier clothing for when you are going out. (Or staying in, as the case may be.)
Know your Body’s Needs
The perfect lingerie fits and looks good, period. If you have to stuff, cram, shimmy, or cajole your body into an item, it is too small. If you are readjusting, tucking, tugging or otherwise having an ‘it doesn’t fit seizure’ then pass it by. If you could tuck an orange into a bra cup and still have gaps, it doesn’t fit. Big breasted women should opt for a little support or they risk black eyes, aching shoulders and the fear of crushing small children. Leave the barely there bras for the smaller chests, your back will thank you for it.
