Erotic Lingerie: The Tables are Turned Boys

Whenever you start reading an article with that rather seductive title, you automatically assume that the writer will be going on about a bra, a lacy thong or a corset. In the same regard, when a writer is assigned a piece on the topic of erotic lingerie, they most often go on a tear about these very things, focusing on the items that men can buy for women or what a woman should buy for herself. There is much ado made about lifting and separating, tucking in and rounding and all of the other things we count on our lingerie, erotic or otherwise to do for us as women. But, what we don’t see a whole lot of and what is a real pity, are articles about erotic lingerie for men. It is time to right that wrong. Leave it to me to get this job done, girls!

Men do have some interesting choices in the underwear they wear. It starts when they are younger when their mothers decide what kind of ‘drawers they will be wearing and then goes on from there. Most of the time, little sonny will choose the type that their daddies wear once they are old enough to start voicing an opinion. Every now and then you will get a guy who will choose more avant garde type underwear on his own, but most of the time, if you want your fellow to wear erotic lingerie, you have to not only ask him to do so but you have to buy it for him.

We all know that the speedo looks wretched on the beach- after all, most of the time the guys who will wear those things are the guys who should not be wearing them. But, you get your guy in the privacy of your own bedroom with his own erotic lingerie and it is a fun time. Think of it- he likes to see you in panties and bra sets because he knows that you wear your erotic lingerie only for him, because it is like seeing you nude but still covered and it doesn’t matter if he has lived with you for decades, he is always going to be thrilled to see you in the bedroom. The same thing works in reverse as well. We like to see our guy and seeing him in his own version of erotic lingerie is a thrill too.

Guys: don’t start acting like you are too cool to wear a pair of bikini briefs printed to look like Santa’s outfit. You are not too fat to wear a sexy pair of mesh thongs. You buy this stuff for us and want us to channel our inner vixens. Turnabout is fair play, darling: what’s good for the goose shall be good for the gander!